Ashmusy Seeks Help from VeryDarkMan Over ₦33M Dispute After Old Feud

Social media influencer Ashmusy has publicly reached out to activist and internet personality VeryDarkMan (VDM), seeking his help in recovering ₦33 million allegedly held by a man named Obinna Martins for over a year.

In a surprising twist, Ashmusy’s appeal comes despite her past online feud with VDM, during which she had insulted him, calling him names and referring to him as a “pig.” However, in a recent message, she offered an apology and asked him to look past their history to help her recover her money.

Responding to the plea, VDM noted the irony of the situation but maintained a calm and mature stance. He said he doesn’t believe in repaying evil with evil and was open to assisting her, provided she sends him all necessary evidence—including transaction records and any proof of the alleged financial dealings.

In his words, “It’s important to treat people with respect. You never know who you might need tomorrow.”

Many social media users have weighed in, with some applauding VDM for taking the high road, while others reminded Ashmusy that pride often comes before a fall. The situation has stirred conversation online, with followers closely watching to see how things unfold.

See some reactions below:

@lifeinsolace said: “But what led her to go to VDM? Someone she abused or has she forgotten?

On the other hand, I can never side with anybody who reveals a confidential chat with another person just to spite the person.”

@Optimus_Dracula commented: “Normal normal, women no get shame. This guy can help her and she’ll still turn around and wash him afterwards.

It’s their MO”

@BiigFish_ wrote: “Ogade! Leave cho chop chop for woman! U go help her or not? As u come online now, wetin u gain”

Watch VDM speak here.

By Ezinne Okorie.