Singer and pastor Banky W has opened up about the profound emotional and physical toll of his wife Adesua Etomi-Wellington’s fertility journey, describing her resilience as one of the most humbling things he has ever witnessed.
In a recent interview on the Teju Babyface Show published on Thursday, April 30, 2026, Banky W shared rare insights into their struggle to conceive, which included multiple failed IVF cycles before the birth of their children.
“A Strength That Surpasses My Own”
Banky W reflected on the quiet bravery Adesua displayed throughout their years of waiting:
- The Physical Toll: He recalled the grueling nature of the IVF process, noting that he watched her inject herself repeatedly and get back on her feet after every disappointment. “I’ve seen her endure things that would break people,” he said.
- Career Sacrifices: The singer highlighted that Adesua chose to put her thriving acting career on pause during certain seasons to prioritize their family and the demanding medical procedures involved in their fertility quest.
- A Shift in Perspective: Banky W noted that witnessing her sacrifice reshaped his view of marriage and domestic life. He jokingly mentioned that seeing what she went through makes it impossible for him to complain about tasks like cooking, which he handles regularly at home.
The Journey to “Miracle” Sons
The couple’s transparency about their path to parenthood has long inspired fans across Africa:
- The Loss of Twins: In previous years, the couple shared the heartbreaking story of losing a set of twins during an earlier pregnancy—a moment they described as a “monthly sorrow” that tested their faith.
- Hallelujah Challenge: Adesua has previously credited her spiritual anchor, including participating in the Hallelujah Challenge, for helping her maintain peace during the darkest moments of their seven-year wait.
- A Growing Family: After welcoming their first son, Zaiah, in early 2021, the couple has since been blessed with a second son, Hezekiah, who was born in late 2025.
