Veteran Nollywood actor Chief Chiwetalu Agu has dropped some profound pearls of wisdom for single Nigerians, urging them to prioritize tested character, emotional intelligence, and mutual respect over physical purity or virginity when choosing a life partner. In a video message that quickly went viral across social media on Sunday, July 12, 2026, the legendary movie star—known for his iconic on-screen roles and witty catchphrases—counselled intending couples to look far beneath the surface before committing to a lifelong marital journey. While acknowledging that virginity is an admirable virtue that represents physical purity, the 70-year-old actor firmly explained that it should never be mistaken for the deep emotional and behavioral traits required to sustain a healthy home.
“Keeping your virginity or being a virgin does not automatically make you wife material. Don’t marry a woman simply because she is a virgin,” Agu stated directly in the widely circulated footage. “The same thing applies to men. Virginity signifies purity, not loyalty, good character, emotional intelligence, or emotional maturity.”
The seasoned actor further cautioned young women against being blinded by superficial attributes like a suitor’s wealth, physical attractiveness, or elite social status, warning that these elements easily fade away when tested by the real-world trials of companionship. For the sake of long-term peace, sanity, and happiness, the veteran filmmaker advised singles to invest time into thoroughly understanding their prospective partners, asking critical questions, and looking out for proven loyalty and kindness. He concluded by maintaining that if a person is fortunate enough to find a partner who is both a virgin and possesses a grounded, God-fearing character, they are exceptionally blessed, but reiterated that character remains the ultimate, irreplaceable bedrock upon which any enduring marriage is built.
