Dance Queen Kaffy breaks silence on her Failed Marriage
To the shock of everyone, Dancehall Queen, Kaffy has confirmed reports of her separation from her husband, Joseph Ameh.
Kaffy disclosed this in her new podcast episode ‘JustKaffy’, where she declared that she’s single but not searching.
Kaffy revealed that their breakup marriage was in order to see that both parties grow in their different career.
Kaffy said, “I wanted to see my ex-husband in his best version, so taking a chance to break this marriage was also to see that we both grew in what we are really supposed to be. Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies driving towards a place God wants for them and mine didn’t work out that way.
Separation is not the end of life for both parties involved, in fact, if you both are honest about why you have to go apart, you will realize how much better life can be. I was in a bitter place when it comes to my marriage, I was frustrated and angry but got freedom from that space and I’m in a space of healing and open to new relationships.
I look at my ex-husband now and I don’t feel a type of way, but wish him the best. I’m single and not searching.
Some people make it back, some don’t; what is ultimate is the outcome borne out of love, rather than looking at someone as the problem,you could be the problem of that person. Being an enabler of someone not being able to do what they are supposed to do can also be that you are not supposed to be in that space.
So, there was a lot to learn and there is still a lot more to learn. I want to express that and motivate you to understand that life is not all about reaction to the world; it is not about reacting to what want you to say or what the world wants to hear; what the world wants you to be or what the world wants you to wear; what the world wants you to look like or get married.”
Although there were rumors of her split in 2021, confirmation of their split still comes as a shock to Netizens.
Here are some reactions;
Its_Ekaette commented, “Never knew she’s now divorced• My marriage will work IJN, Amen• Mbok”
Darey_Official commented: “Divorce is stylishly becoming the order of the day. gradually, gradually they’re turning it into an achievement. very soon they’ll tell us every marriage must have an expiry date”.
Another social media user commented: She said “life is not about reacting to the world”, I think life is about how you react to the world, not reacting at all is also a reaction. The rate at divorce in our society is becoming alarming, does that mean that people are marrying under wrong fundamentals???
Cupid_fragrances commented; “This one pain me”.
Adyponk commented, “This mindset of jumping into marriage in other to jump out any day must be changed. It makes nonsense of our Christain faith.”
